From left, Michael, Phoebe, Sophia and Daria Kasparian in Armenia

When a Daughter’s Journey of Self-Discovery Becomes a Family’s Mission in Armenia

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YEREVAN — Most of the time, parents’ guide their children. But for the Kasparian family from Cape Cod, it was their daughter, Phoebe, who led the way. Much like the iconic lighthouses of their hometown, Phoebe’s journey through the Birthright Armenia program lit a path for her parents to follow.

“Phoebe inspired us to look beyond a simple visit and think about how we could give back,” says Michael, Phoebe’s dad, as he recalls their decision to transform a traditional trip into a meaningful volunteer experience. “Seeing her immerse herself in the culture and community made us realize we could do more than just visit — we could contribute.”

Phoebe, fresh out of college, was eager to connect with her roots. Birthright Armenia seemed like the perfect gateway. “A friend told me about Birthright, and once I checked out the website, I was hooked,” she recalls. Nine months in Yerevan surpassed her expectations. “My host family was incredible — they welcomed me as one of their own,” Phoebe said. The bond is so strong that her host father is planning a visit to Cape Cod soon.

During her time in Armenia, Phoebe interned with the Armenia Tree Project. She also worked with the Rerooted Archive, where she played a significant role in writing a book based on the testimonies of Syrian-Armenian repatriates, compiling reports on the ethnic cleansing of Artsakh and managing social media content to increase engagement.

When Phoebe’s parents, Daria and Michael, visited her in October 2023, they were captivated by Armenia’s beauty and warmth. Michael, who had  last visited Yerevan in 1979, was amazed by the transformation. “We were blown away by the development. Armenia has come a long way,” he reflects.

From left, Daria, Phoebe and Michael Kasparian

For Daria, the connection was profound and immediate. Though not Armenian by birth, she embraced Armenian culture through her marriage to Michael. “I fell in love with the Armenian community before coming to Armenia and became an ABC–an Armenian by choice!” she says. Daria’s Portuguese Catholic background resonated with Armenian values of family, faith, and community. In Armenia, Daria connected on a deeper level. “Lighting candles in Armenian churches and participating in the liturgy felt familiar and therapeutic,” she explains.

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Rather than just enjoying the sights, Daria and Michael decided to return for an extended stay to volunteer with the Armenian Volunteer Corps (AVC). Michael, with his organizational management background and longtime membership in the Knights of Vartan, found his niche supporting local efforts. In Armenia, he worked with the local chapter of the Knights of Vartan, assisting with editing tasks. He also helped fundraise for their small grants program aimed at supporting Armenians forcefully displaced from Artsakh. “In the Diaspora, we often think that our contributions to Armenia are limited to financial donations. But being here, I realized that our expertise and time are even more valuable,” Michael noted. He emphasizes the importance of shifting from simply writing checks to making a direct impact through personal involvement.

Daria brought her 29 years as a public school teacher to Armenian classrooms. “Kids are kids everywhere,” she said with a smile. “Culturally, there are differences, but fundamentally, all children want to have fun and are eager to learn.” Volunteering in various provinces throughout Armenia, she engaged with students who reminded her of her own back home.

During their stay, Michael and Daria celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary by renewing their vows at the St. Gayane, a historic seventh-century church. “Renewing our vows here was incredibly meaningful. Faith is central to our lives, and this place has special significance,” Michael shares. Michael, active in the Eastern Diocese of the Armenian Church, sees himself as a ‘cheerleader’ for AVC and Armenia, eager to effectively promote AVC’s outreach efforts within the Church and its parishes throughout New England, the US, and beyond.

For Phoebe, having her parents by her side added a new dimension to her journey. “It didn’t feel like a solo adventure anymore. They supported me and found their own ways to contribute,” she says. And though safety was initially a concern for the Kasparians, all three were pleasantly surprised by how secure they felt in Armenia. This sense of safety allowed them to fully immerse themselves in their roles and the community without worry.

As their time in Armenia came to a close, the Kasparians were already thinking about their next visit. “Next time, we might stay outside the city center, since we’ve already had this experience,” Michael mused. He even hinted at possibly having a more permanent place to return to often, perhaps in Ashtarak or nearby.

Michael and Daria celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary by renewing their vows at the St. Gayane, a historic 7th-century site

Phoebe is committed to continuing her Armenian language studies virtually upon her return to the US. “Learning Armenian has opened a new world for me, and I’m determined to keep going,” she said. Both she and her parents urge others to take the plunge.

The Kasparians’ story isn’t just about rediscovering roots or giving back. It’s about a family finding deeper connections with each other and with Armenia.

 

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